I think this topic is really recognisable for each one of us. Dutch columnist Thomas Donders, author of 100Brillen, is writing that a process takes time. Each process takes time. One hand to accept new things building time and space in your life (like a new job, moving to another place, meeting new people, going to another sportclub etc.) and on the other hand, if you loose this new creature in your life, it takes time again to accept this loss.